Since my sister and I had a nice visit with Mother on May 10, 2002, I decided to go and visit her at Dialysis, again. This was 10 days later.
I walked in and sat down near her, and when she saw me, she, immediately, began saying very loudly that she didn't want me there. Then, the Dialysis nurse, Linda, came over and said, "Mother, calm down a little bit. It's okay." Mother said, 'they (my brother and the 'manipulator') took me to R.John's office the day before yesterday, and he told me that he doesn't want you down here, anymore.' 'John told me not to have you come here.' 'John said it wasn't okay, he don't want them (meaning myself and sister), to come here anymore. He told me that, day before yesterday.'
Nurse, Linda said, "I know what he said but I want to know what you say. You're the one that is important here." I asked Mother if she had to listen to John, and she replied, "I don't know, (then repeated) John told me the other day, he don't want them (my sister & I) down here." "I have to do what my Attorney says."
By this time, I could see that my Mother had been so BRAINWASHED, by her son, and this Attorney. Nurse, Linda, discussed with me, that Mother had never acted like this before. And to think, just 10 days prior, when my sister and I visited her, she told us that she loved us, and to have a Happy Mother's Day.
It was very obvious that she had been threatened by R. John or she would never have come out and acted like this. THIS is definitely, Psychological Elder Abuse and to think it was our Mother's Son and his Attorney that were doing this to her.